| A good oral sex position can make the difference between a hot and fun oral romp and an awkward ten minutes that leaves you with a pain in the neck. While it's true that most of us are just excited to be receiving oral sex and may not care so much about the position, for oral sex lovers (both the giving and receiving kind) changing up the position can also change the experience. Positions may give either or both partners more access to touching body parts and certain positions easily highlight the power dynamic potential of oral sex.
Oral Sex Positions Tip #1 – On Your Knees:
This classic position (well classic in porn anyway) can evoke the power dynamics in oral sex well. Despite being usually represented as a position for fellatio, a woman can also receive oral sex while standing with a partner kneeling in front of them. Benefits of this position are the visuals, the fact that the giving partner may be able to use their hands, as well as being a position that doesn't require a lot of room and can be gotten into and out of relatively quickly. The drawback is that it's hard on the knees (a pillow under them helps a bit) and it can be hard on the neck as well.
Oral Sex Positions Tip #2 – Between the Legs:
A much more comfortable position than being on your knees, in this common position the receiving partner lies on the back with the giver further down between their legs. There are a lot of variations on this position where the receiving partner bends their knees or lifts their legs right up off the bed (they can rest on the givers shoulders). The receiving partner can also turn on their side, and this may be even more comfortable for a giving partner who has neck problems.
Oral Sex Positions Tip #3 – Right Angle Approach:
In this position the receiving partner lies flat on their back and the giving partner positions themselves at a right angle with head at their partners genitals. Giving oral sex at this position changes the usual direction of stroking/licking from up-and-down to side-to-side. Side-to-side stimulation, particularly for women can be more intense and may be preferred. This position also allows the giver greater hand reach if they want to stimulate the legs and feet or head of their partner.
Oral Sex Positions Tip #4 – Face Sitting:
If you're prone to giggling this may not be the oral sex position for you as it may remind you of a childhood game in a non-sexy way. Otherwise this position can work well, particularly with a woman on top. It's great if the giver has any mobility restrictions or fatigues easily, and it also provides a lot of dominance/submission potential. The receiver can sit over the givers face either crouching or with their shins on the bed, and can even lean forward and support their own upper body with their hands (so they're kind of in a rear entry position).
Oral Sex Positions Tip #5 – On the Edge of Your Seat:
A more relaxed version of the on your knees position, in this one the receiver sits in a comfy chair with their bum out towards the edge (this also works on the edge of a bed or couch of course). This position is much easier for the giver who can be on their knees or sitting but can shift some of the weight of their own body from their knees to their upper body by using the chair for some support. One drawback to this position is that it doesn't offer the same kind of access to the receiver's full body.  |
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